Wednesday, July 14, 2010

宝宝的照片

所有的父母都相信 他们的孩子是最可爱,最聪明,世界上最好的东西。我没有什么不同。这是我的宝贝的图片。好可爱的,我欢迎您的宝宝的照片。

我们要检查多少儿童信息的来源?

我在我的facebook张贴 “我的儿子已经开始看Ultraman,他喜欢把它称作“啊man”。我收到了的反应:“我朋友的孩子站在沙发上,告诉他爸爸 :“爸爸...见..超人'..”然后他从沙发上跌了!额头上肿了个大肿块。因此,请确保检查你孩子见及与他们分享对还是错。”我的回答是“我敢打赌,他不会把从沙发上跳了。”


的确,我儿子看了Ultraman之后,他喜欢玩假装的打争。不过,这是我教他如何正确地战斗的时间。就像在“育儿用爱与逻辑” 书中,helicopter parents - 拯救型父母永远都在那里保护他们的孩子,但他们错过了让他们的孩子思考的机会,而辨认从高处跳下是危险的。


有一件事情我真正相信的是,小孩遭受的痛苦时,年轻的将远远超过年长时。我自己的亲身经历:有一天,当我大约12岁或13岁时,我用自行车追逐与摩托车卖面包的人。我骑得非常快,实在太快。当我开到一个转弯时,我跌倒了。 只好拿起脚车自己哭了回家。然而,由于这一场意外,我驾驶汽车永远不会超过极限的速度,或上疯狂司机的车。

我希望我的儿子在开始学习如何骑自行车的时后会跌倒,而不是以后的生活中发生车祸...


How much do we censor children`s information sources?

I posted on my facebook that my son has started watching Ultraman, and that he likes to call it "A man". I received a feedback from my friend saying "My fren kid stand on the sofa, n tell his dad ' dad... see.. superman'.. n he fell from the sofa!! big lump on his forehead. so make sure u censor wat ur kid see & share with them wat is right or wrong". My response was " I bet he will not jump off from sofa again."

It is true that after my son watches Ultraman; he likes to play pretend fight. However, that is the prefect timing for me to redirect him how to fight correctly. Just like in the book " Parenting with love and Logic", helicopter parents will always be there to protect they kids, yet, they missed the opportunity to let their kids think for themselves that jumping from height is dangerous.
One thing I truly believe is that the pain they suffer when they are young will be far less severe than when they are older. My own personal experience: One day when I was about 12 or 13 years old, I tried to chase after a motorcycle bread man with my bicycle. I went very fast, too fast indeed to turn when I came to a corner. I fell and picked up myself crying all the way home. However, due to that accident, I will never drive my car more than the speed limit, or get in a car with a crazy driver.
I hope my son will fall when he first started learning how to bike, and not get into a car accident later in life...